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It was living the dream – being married with the perfect woman. But it was then that I realized my dreams were shattered when I found out about her cheating. I was like floating away from the reality, waiting for someone to pinch me so to wake me up and believe that everything is real.

Being one of the men, it was a big crush on your ego knowing you’ve been fooled and it made you less of the man you were. It’s normal to feel uneasy and in the state of urgency to know the answers to your questions.

What is the Truth Behind Women’s Unfaithfulness

Let’s cite some reasons behind the incapability of women to maintain the faithfulness in their marriage. I’m sure it’s a big difference from men’s reasons.

He just seemed to know my soul.

With him, I felt accepted and praised.

He did not expect something in return.

I felt as real as life.

He made me feel beautiful.

He maintained my self-esteem.

He filled me with the sense of belongingness.

I felt that I’m the air he breathes.

There is a big comparison between feeling and emotion. As you noticed the things above talked about the feeling of a woman toward the things that the other man showed her. But it didn’t necessarily mean that she loves the other man. She needed actions to make her feel loved. She needed to feel affection instead of just words. If you would apply this to your marriage, it would help save the marriage.

Cheating – Worth The Risk for Women?

Is cheating really worth the risk? That is the question. If you analyze the situation, your wife had probably just diverted her attention to someone who made her feel a woman again. But, it didn’t mean anything at all. Catch up with what had lost and fill in the spaces to make her regret the decision she had done. What she felt for the other man is nothing profound compared with what she had with you.

That doesn’t mean that she wasn’t aware of the risks or even that she hadn’t spent a lot of time arguing with herself about all the reasons she shouldn’t do it. It just means that eventually all arguments were drowned out by the noise of feeling good when the other man looked at her.

Find Out Why She Cheated

The issue here is not concerned with being in love or who’s truly in love or not. It is all about feelings. Your wife obviously wanted to feel her value through gestures which you failed to show. Now, this guy was just right in time. And it happened.

It’s the sensation of something new and exciting that so many marriages lack after a few years. It’s the allure of being wanted and needed by a man and not simply taken for granted. If you want to win her back from the other man you’re going to need a little more than dinner and flowers. You’re going to have to make her feel special, important, wanted, and needed – by you.

This doesn’t mean that it’s hopeless and you can’t get your ex back after she’s cheated on you. This article, A Perfect Marriage – Until She Cheated is available for free reprint.