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After the cheating you did it is just but normal to take some (or even more) time before your wife will be inclined to be physically intimate with you once more. However, that does not mean you are hindered from making your marriage more exciting while she’s in the process of softening on the issue. You never see, when you get to play your cards right you may even shorten the process and get her back on the trail of things a lot sooner than expected.

Here are a few things to remember as you work to make your marriage hotter than ever before.

1) Women unlike men are turned on with their minds rather than through their eyes. This may sound as a bit stereotyping but it’s actually a reality. Men are so easy to turn on. It is in turning them off that an average man need to work more. On the other hand more effort is needed to get a woman sets into the mood. This is significantly true after her self-esteem had been challenged after finding out that her husband has been seeing another woman. If you need her to crave in desire for you, you need to start with her mind and really get her head into the game.

2) She still wants the romance. In the beginning you didn’t mind shelling out the flowers, pretty words, dinners out, or the occasional box of chocolates. Once you won her heart and hand in marriage those things became more of a chore than an act of conquest. Now might be a good time to get back in the game of trying to woo her all over again. That is, after all, what you’re trying to do. You may have won her hand in marriage but now you’re fighting for a second chance. It’s time to go back to the beginning and win her heart all over again.

3) Physical intimacy isn’t only about copulation. There are many ways to be physically intimate with a woman and she craves them all. While she may not be ready to resume sexual relations it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want the casual intimacy that has probably been missing in your marriage for a while. If you start with these small but intimate gestures (back rubs, hand holding, cuddling, etc.) it will bring about the intimacy that you may find more rewarding much faster.

4) Why not change your venue. This last one may help you go to a more neutral ground with the perfect solution on hand. It is sometime helpful for her to be in an environment that does not help her recall memories so that she may get a new start with you. Allow her that and you will be surprised what a wonderful new woman you have in bed with her.

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