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As much as we try not to, it is easy as human beings to make snap judgments about each other based on appearances. This is why, for example, an interview suit is such a wise investment for the job hunter.

In a perfect world this would not happen at all, and would definitely not happen with children, but we don’t live in a perfect world. Elementary school teachers often show favoritism, even when they try not to. It may be hard for children to watch another child being favored.

My three daughters all have very distinct personalities. My youngest will talk the leg off a table, explaining anything and everything. The oldest is very shy and reserved, but works the hardest in her studies. My middle daughter is somewhere in between, and talks a lot during class.

Does your child feel left out because he or she thinks the teacher has other favorites? If so, don’t get upset right away or overreact.

Talk to your child about it. Where did they get this information? Did they witness it first hand and what did they witness?

Maybe they overheard other children talking – did they actually see the behavior themselves? Children should understand that everyone has different personalities and some will always be more outgoing than others. This doesn’t make those people better or more popular, they may just be noticed more.

A child and teacher laughing doesn’t have to imply a favorite. Calling on the same students during class can be innocent. Perhaps the teacher doesn’t want to embarrass students who don’t know the answer and is calling on those who raise their hand first.

If your child feels left out, encourage him or her to join in – chances are they’ll be more than welcome!

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