Do you feel even the least little bit weird about using the Law of Attraction to try to get more money or more love? Can you even do this or do you feel like there are unseen barriers in your way that are preventing you from getting that which you desire the most? If it can be done, what can you do to improve your chances of success so you can live the life that you dream of with the one that you love the most?
This is the type of thing that I often thought of when I began manifesting. Just like you, I also struggled in my life and always found myself wanting more. My vision was not unreasonable, I felt. Thoughts and dreams of a comfortable lifestyle spent in the surroundings that I found pleasant with a woman I could love who would love me back sincerely. But these dreams always eluded me and I often found myself living paycheck to paycheck and on the losing end of every romance I ever had. But maybe the Law of Attraction could bring me the wealth that I desired and the love of one good woman. Was this too much to ask for?
Even though we are not supposed to literally want when we are practicing using the Law of Attraction, it is difficult sometimes not to look at our lives and see the deficit. Living inside the dream or the life that we envision is the direction that we should go. Spending time vividly visualizing every aspect of the life that we dream of from the touch of a lovers hand to the taste of their kiss. We should be able to almost feel the warm tropical breeze on our face and the smell of the salt water in our nostrils. But often we fail at maintaining that dream and keeping our focus on that inner life.
Even though all of us might feel this way once in a while or we might have a down day when it seems like nothing is going right and we can’t seem to get rid of the stinking thinking, it is often our own thoughts that are getting in the way. We might subconsciously believe that it is wrong to want wealth or that it is somehow cheating to try to use the Law of Attraction to bring love or money into our life. But hold on just a second! How could we ever cheat this very natural and universal law? If we are manifesting these things into our life with the best of intentions and for the greater good of all including ourselves then where is the harm? How can we get out of our own way and let the Law of Attraction deliver to us that which we feel that we desire?
All of us are pretty flawed in our own unique ways. I would love to lie to you and tell you that I never have a bad day or that I never doubt that the Law of Attraction is going to bring me what I desire, but that would be a lie. What do I do when I’m beating myself up and making my own life miserable? I take a look at what is going on inside my head and root out the cause for my troubles. What am I unconsciously telling myself? Then I gently remind myself that I am no different than anyone else in the world and I do deserve to be love and to be wealthy. It is not a matter of chance. I check my motives and make sure that I am not acting out of destructive emotions and I talk myself through how I want my life to be.
We can look back at the successes that we have had in our past in using the law of attraction to bring both large and small things into our life. This is where keeping a diary or sorts is helpful so we can look back and remember when miracles happened in our lives thanks to this ancient law. We can remember where a request to the universe was answered with exactly what we asked for or something even better. In short order, we will be back on track and feeling better about ourselves as the doubts are swept away like the morning mist as the new day dawns.
Even though everyone might believe that his deeds are right in his own eyes, it is often a good idea to do a little honesty check every once in a while. Check your motives and examine your heart from time to time to make sure that we haven’t allowed ourselves to get off track when it comes to why we want our life to be a certain way. Selfish desires can bring unexpected results when using the Law of Attraction and an open heart can inversely bring even bigger results than we had imagined.
Are we using the law of attraction to gain love or money out of greed because we wish to possess and hoard money or out of jealousy to receive the love externally that is lacking in ourselves? Do we wish to manifest a certain astronomical sum of money out of fear or a feeling of lack in our lives? What good will come from having this money and what will we do with it? Is it the money that we really wish to possess by using the law of attraction or is it the lifestyle and experiences that we wish to have in our lives? Is it fear that has caused us to want to stockpile cash jealously without cause or real reason or do we have a sincere desire to experience life and help humanity?
As for love, has the rejection of a loved one caused us to focus our attention upon regaining that love that was once ours or do we truly love this other person? Are our motives in using the law of attraction to bring the love of one special person into our life because we truly love that person and wish to give them a life beyond compare or do we wish to possess that person? Will they feel loved and would a close friendship where there is heartfelt tenderness suffice to quell our desire to love them and have them love us?
When it is all said and done, honesty is always the best policy. You’re never going to be able to trick yourself and you’re not going to be able to fool the universe either. The Law of Attraction knows your heart and your motives and learning what it is that you really want can remove any roadblocks that might be in your way. No matter if it is the money to build a lifestyle that you dream about or the love of the person of your dreams, the Law of Attraction can deliver the goods if you play by the rules.
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